Hey! I'm Chad
Helping you create a life you love!
My new life started at 45. I gave 20 years grinding in corporate America, doing something I didn’t love. At the zenith of my corporate career, I walked away, sold everything I owned, and began to travel full time.
What life has shown me, no, life has PROVEN is that if I’m unhappy, it’s due to a lack of imagination. As an empowered creator, you can, in fact, create any life experience you want and I will be the support network that I wished I had.
I realize I am a flawed human being, I failed in 2 marriages, I battled obesity and disease, I finally acknowledged there had to be more. My first client was myself and I scraped, fought, and failed until I built a process to create lasting change and now with those tools I’m ready to show you how too.
Age 18, joined the US Navy and married my high school sweetheart (wife #1). I didn’t know what I wanted to do with my life so I decided to join the US Navy, hoping that would give me time to figure it out.
Age 21, marriage ended in divorce. Heartbroken and in a career I was already starting to dislike.
Intro to Buddhism
Age 22, completed my undergraduate degree then transferred to my first submarine in Pearl Harbor, Hawaii.
The isolation of the submarine provided the perfect place for me to explore Buddhism, Hinduism and other Eastern philosophies. I would bring stacks of books prior to the submarine deploying and then spend months reading and exploring the depths of who I was, my relationship to my creator, how I fit into the universe and what the point was to all of this.
Bartending in Hawaii
Age 26, left the US Navy, applied to the Peace Corps, started work at a nightclub in Hawaii, met my second wife (#2).
This was a big year! I felt like I found purpose in applying for the Peace Corps and was hoping to get an assignment in a predominantly Buddhist country so that I could further my understanding of Buddhism and meditation. While I was in the Peace Corps application process I started working at a friend’s nightclub, where I met my second wife.
Soon I got lost in the nightclub bartender lifestyle, bailed on the Peace Corps idea and plunged head first into a life of alcohol, drugs, and sex. I effectively abandoned any and all spiritual pursuits.
Age 28, left Hawaii, left the bar industry, followed my girlfriend to Long Beach, CA and started my corporate career.
My girlfriend at the time (who would become my second wife) wanted to leave Hawaii and move to Long Beach, CA. I was madly in love, had no direction or ambitions of my own, so I decided to follow her, leave the bar game and get a legit corporate job where my degree and military background would help me earn more money to support our desires and party lifestyle.
One of the proudest days of my life. I was deeply in love and knew that her and I would build a family, grow old together and live happily ever after.
Twelve years in and my marriage started falling apart in front of my eyes, with me helpless to stop it. I was worn out; the years of drugs, drinking and partying had taken their toll on me. My marriage was “fun”, but it felt like it was killing me. No children, just debt and a career I’d spent the last twelve years hating – and I mean hating every second of it. What kind of husband could I have been? I felt lost, unfulfilled, unhappy and completely dead inside.
2016 began a complete transformation of my life and who I was.
I became obsessed with shedding my victim mentality and figuring out what made me feel inspired. I abandoned trying to build a career and started to build a LIFE I never dreamed I could have. That’s when I started to coach others on how to do it as well, but I knew I needed help; I wanted a guru to help me learn faster!
Hired a Coach
In 2017, she entered my life and I started working with my own coach. I wanted her to help me with my coaching business and instead she showed me the true power of what it meant to be a creator. She completely dismantled my life and everything I thought I was. Little did I know, my life would never be the same.
On my 45th birthday I walked away from my corporate career at its peak and decided to coach full-time. I had started building and shaping who I was, as well as my life. I was living intentionally, and it was time to bring the next phase of the life I was building to fruition.
In 2020 I started a YouTube channel called the “Blacked Out Buddhist”. Toward the end of the year I sold everything I owned, filled a backpack and decided to travel the world, coaching my clients from the road and developing my YouTube channel.
This is my story. The only one left to write is yours.
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